Instead of making a bunch of resolutions that’ll get ditched sometime in mid-January, I decided to celebrate the personal growth that’s happened this past year. I’m ten times stronger and more mature than I was a year ago. So without further ado, here is my list of things I’ve learned this past year:
1.) loving other people and being their slave are not the same thing.
2.) Self-love is not selfish. (I want to throttle every professing Christian who has ever implied otherwise.)
3.) Life is better with a little color in it.
4.) You’re damned if you do and damned if you don’t, so you might as well chill out and stop trying to please everyone.
5.) Unfortunate life events are not some kind of divine punishment. Sometimes crap just happens and no one knows why.
6.) Life is better with a little less TV and a little more music.
7.) Pilates may not be a cure-all, but it sure helps
8.) Fleece pants, Disney movies, and teddy bears solve any problem. (Yes I am coming up on the 7th anniversary of my 20th birthday and i have a teddy bear. Deal with it.)
9.) Putting value judgments on your emotions is asking for disaster
10.) Failure to put the lid all the way on the blender will, in fact, result in an explosion just like on TV. Apparently they weren’t making that one up!
11.) Whoever you are, wherever you are, you have something valuable to give the world whether you realize it or not. In the words of Fred Rogers, “There’s not another person in this whole world like you.”
I hope everyone has a safe and happy new year, and I’ll be back in 2015! 🙂